STAT...................

What to do?

Well, whenever I am confronted with stasis — whenever I feel stuck in a lifeless rut — I go back to basics. And what can be more basic than nature?

Nature has always been my bedrock; it has balance and moves gracefully with change. Nature can stimulate us likewise to regain our own balance, and to accept change with enthusiasm and grace


True love is our ideal. We desire it, and in our desire we want to possess it. What could be more natural?

True love, after all, is the most comforting and beautiful aspect of relationship. Who would not want to possess it?

But can you possess true love, and does this involve possessing the person you love? Or is true love somehow separate from your lover

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If you are wondering why you should trust your lover, you might ask yourself why you are in a relationship in the first place.

If you are in it to possess comfort, sex, money, security, social or even self-acceptance, then love is not on your agenda. You can safely forget about it and continue on your mutual path of self gratification, possession, and power struggles. But if you are open to finding true unconditional love, the road passes right through the heart of your selfishness, your jealousy, and your possessiveness. It emerges on the opposite side. You have to navigate these base emotions before you can move your relationship onto higher ground.

Is That too much to ask?

Happy 2011