Why they cheat......?

There’s something really nice about getting comfortable around each other — we think so too.

But with that familiarity, sometime we lose some of our intense desire. What is always sexy?

Mystery, and nothing is more mysterious than the unknown.

And what’s the unknown?

Wondering how other naked man look like? Wondering how its feel in someone arms, or how good its like when you making love with a total stranger? Or something missing in your relationships that made you wonder and cheat your partner.

Why ‘cheating’ is always happening in our life?

What really matters is, sometimes we don’t really know the other half or we’re not at the same page/direction in our journey especially our culture or the differences, the age gaps, the races, the thinking, and perhaps how we accepted ourselve...

Feeling Lonely in a Relationship. Feelings of loneliness are one of the most common reasons which lead us to cheat on our partner. Though it may seem a contradiction to say that a man also feels lonely within a relationship, your partner may feel that the relationship is not emotionally fulfilling.

This can be particularly problematic if the other partner is deeply involved with his work or his friends and leaves him (the other half) to spend a lot of time alone. Balancing time between work and friends outside the relationship will help him feel wanted and stop him from feeling inclined to seek attention outside of the relationship.

Feeling Taken for Granted. While you may discuss the important day to day issues of your relationship such as work, household chores and family life, but sometime the other half often need to talk about more personal issues like life goals, dreams for the future and what you love about each other. This type of intimacy helps to build reassurance and stability in a relationship and will stop men from wanting to seek these important intimacies with another man.

You Are Leading Separate Lives? Though you started out on the same path together, your lives may have diverged so much that your partner feels you no longer have anything in common. If its come down to the point where he spends more time with his friends than with you, it might be time to consider making an effort to spend time doing things together that you both enjoy. This will encourage him to be more attentive to you than his friends or another man who he may feel has more in common with him.

Revenge Can Be Bittersweet, If your partner has caught you cheating, then he is obviously feeling rejected, hurt and angry. If this is the case, then he may cheat as an act of revenge to try and compensate for these feelings. He may feel that he deserves to indulge himself to pay you back for your infidelities.

The Ego Needs Stroking, Sometimes men can feel insecure about themselves and will cheat in an attempt to boost their confidence and stroke their ego. Sometimes they may feel that their partner is not giving them enough attention or attention in the way that they would like; this can lead them to seek the attention and flattery of other men which may develop into cheating.

Till then, tell me what's in your mind now, cos I can't read it.....