Forget about those epening line at those website about what those guys want, here is what I want.....
Sense of Humour - My late grandfather always said laughter was the best medicine, which is, I guess why several of us suffered from never-ending whooping cough. At the conclusion of an everlasting work day, most of us are lethargic, irritable, and suffer from an intense desire to burn anyone who gets in our way. A great sense of humour, a keen wit, and the sly ability to laugh at anything even remotely amusing will therefore alleviate a lot of life’s pressures and dramas. Everybody loves to laugh - the most successful movies, plays, and television shows have always been comedies. Life is way too short to take it seriously and so the most attractive quality a man can have is to keep those around him in constant amusement. I keep in close touch with an ex-boyfriend to this day for the sole fact that we can make each other laugh like very few others can, and I guarantee that every guy out there is looking for similar fun and frivolity.
Intelligence - While it is generally thought that men are fearful of other men whose intelligence is superior to their own, nothing could be further from the truth. No one expects their significant other to be able to expertly discuss and analyse the geological topography of the People’s Republic of Chad, however, social intelligence and a keen interest in the world around us are qualities that will take most people a long way. In any sort of social scenario, we will be introduced to people who are well read, widely travelled, highly educated, and culturally curious, and it’s important that we are able to converse in type. Therefore most guys I know will always look highly upon a boy whose knowledge and interests are extensive and varied, and who is clever without resorting to grandstanding or the belittling of others. It’s been said before that sex and intelligence are the dual cures for boredom, and for single guys it’s not often that both are readily available in the same package.
Personal Style - While the male mind might easily be distracted by the flashing of an unholy amount of skin, it’s not generally something that will keep us occupied long term. We’re not all really that shallow and typically much prefer a man who dresses for the occasion with a little class and elegance - it’s why you just don’t see that many guys actively pursuing relationships with money boy or Justin Beiber (is that right spelling?). It’s certainly important to wear a spectacular ball to a VIP event and to have a hot clubbing outfit ready to go, but we also appreciate a pair of ripped jeans and singlet when lazing around the house or a business suit for a client meeting. Fashion isn’t always about dressing up or dressing down and it certainly isn’t about showing us everything as some of us definitely prefer to leave some things to the imagination. Give us variety, substance, and show us that you have a personal style all of your own, because clothes don’t just make the man and we do pay attention!
A Knock-Out Feature - While straight guys would be lying if we said looks were not important, they maybe do not carry as much weight as most gay men would think. A man does not have to be drop dead gorgeous with the body of Chriss Evan at Captain America and the face of Brad Pitt for our interest to be tweaked. If you were to ask twenty gay guys what feature they found the most attractive in a man or noticed in the first instance, you would quite likely receive twenty different responses. Some guys are derriere obsessed whereas others search for a George Clooney picket-fence smile; some appreciate curves and booty while one of my mates has a strange obsession with well shaped ears. While you probably have no idea what that guy you have been eyeing at the bar for the last couple of hours looks for and prefers, you will certainly know what your own knock-out feature is and everybody certainly has one, whether it be mysterious eyes, sensual lips, lustrous hair, a killer set of buns, or a gym toned stomach. Whatever it is, play it up, work with it, enhance it, own it. If a guy notices and admires your best asset, it’s more likely that he will transfer that admiration over to you as a whole.
Confidence - Nothing is more attractive to me than a man who breezes into a room like he hasn’t a care in the world. Carrying yourself with an aura of poise and self belief is a quality that will have male heads turning wherever you go. In this respect, confidence is channelled from someplace deep inside and it’s not an easy thing for straight men or gay men to fake or imagine - confidence can only be realised from a supreme belief in your own power. Watch your cat the next time it enters the room and acknowledge how it watches you with a curious mix of superiority, detachment, and impenetrable unflappability. While initially it will be difficult to stop yourself from throwing its smug face out the front door, you somehow are left working even harder to garner its love and approval. Confidence between the sexes prefaces innocent teasing, harmless flirting, and a sense of danger and mystery that allows for the transfer of power in any personal relationship. This will more often than not have any guy eating directly out of the palm of your hand.
So, my friends, let me know if I am wrong about those what I just point out! who's care about Mr. DTE (down to earth) Mr. Funny, Mr. Big Dick or Mr. Sporty etc....
Till then
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