Eight reasons why I cheats

Sometimes, when the going gets tough, the tough get it on with someone else. But what really makes me (or most men) stray? I guess a nagging boyfriend? Bad sex? An escape from loneliness?

Yes, yes and yes. Hear why me slipped away from the boy that I date for few months and end up I landed in someone else's bed (most of the time, in my bed). Then — whether you’re the ONE or your boyfriend — use the info below to sidestep this kind of situation in your love life.

Reason number ONE : For payback
The boy I was dated for few months, cheated on me, after I saw on his cell phone that he had been text-messaging with some other men. They were pretty harmless and dirty messages, but it angered me that he had been communicating with stranger in that way, in the very first night — That night, I was out with friends and had a lot to drink. I got so worked up about those messages that I pretty much made it my mission to find another boy and hook up with him, which I did. I think it was a payback thing.

Reason number TWO: The physical attraction just isn't there
Ever since I can remember, I have always been attracted to taller men with large chests. My current boy was great in a lot of ways, but he was completely flat-chested, which did absolutely nothing to make me sexually attracted to him. I tried to look past it, but it was hard. About four months into our relationship, I was out with a bunch of friends at a sports bar, and our incredibly tall, hot and ample-chested barmaid was really hitting on me. He gave me his number and asked me if I wanted to meet him after his shift was over. I agreed, and ended up sleeping with him. It was just a one night thing, but it helped me realize I needed to end things with my date, because I had to be with someone I was madly attracted to.

Reason number THREE: He just isn't there
The next time I cheated on my boy is, when he was away spending his time with his parents at his home-town, so much that I hardly see him.. It was almost as if I didn't have a boyfriend. I got so lonely — especially on the weekend nights, and I missed that companionship, both physically and emotionally. When he was gone, I began seeing someone else while I was still technically seeing and dating him. I think, in my case, since we didn’t live together, it’s hard to keep the relationship stronger when he is not there (with me on most night). Especially, in the cold raining nights, or when you feel that you need to hug someone badly...

Reason number FOUR: He thinks he's missing out
I had dated him for almost eight months, He spent nearly every two days at my place and during the weekend, he hardly going out with me, So I'd go out with my friends either for happy hour, dinner or brunch and have a blast. After a few months of that drill, I knew staying true to him would be tough; going out in the city made me realize how many smart, gorgeous boy are out there, and never having been with anyone other than ‘A’ made me feel like I was missing out on a lot of fun. One night I hooked up with this cute boy, which finally made me realize I had to end things with ‘A’. I told him what happened, and, as it turned out, he didn’t really care about that.

Reason number FIVE: He's moved on emotionally
I met my boy on the char-room, of all places. When we started dating, I was in the middle of keeping myself fit with lapping at the pool almost every late afternoon. As the months went by, I took the program really seriously and quickly dropped weight. After I lost the weight, I felt this new sense of confidence — Boys who had never spoken to me before began approaching me, and it felt great. My boy, on the other hand, was depressed about being low self-esteem and was always jealous of other boy. One weekend when he was out of town, I met this gorgeous French boy (on holiday) at my local cafe and we slept together. I never told my boy, I've realized since then that I need to be with men who are on the same page as me about the things in my life that are important"

Reason number SIX: There's too much fighting
Since my boy and I didn’t live together, and we fought all the time. The constant tension made me miserable. In contrast to my boy, there was a boy at work who was easygoing, friendly and fun. One night we were both working late and ended up getting a drink together after we left. One thing led to another, and I ended up staying over at his place. As bad as this may sound, after that happened, I felt free.

Reason number SEVEN He needs a shot of self-esteem
Honestly. At first, I'm really shy, and have never felt very comfortable approaching men. I once had a boyfriend who was just as shy as me. Our relationship was fine — nothing too exciting — but I was resigned to the fact that it was my best option. I went to a conference for business, and during one of the dinners, a really attractive, sexy man at my table began hitting on me like mad. I was so shocked; nothing like that had ever happened to me before. It made my self-confidence skyrocket, and I felt on top of the world. He and I were together that night and a few other times during the conference. I never told my ex about what had happened, I just needed that push.

Reason number EIGHT: To fulfill a fantasy
The one time, I once cheated on my boy of six months when a sexy boy I had been pining over for quite some time came on to me. He had been with someone else for a long time, so I knew he was off-limits. I have to admit, I'd still probably do it again; it was like my fantasy finally came true. Strange thing we didn't last for long. Sometimes, the fantasy is better than the reality!

Till then, tell me about yours and we see how bad is the bad going..