Unforeseen signs that shows that he WON'T be calling you up for that second date.
Most gay man had good intuition but it usually disappears when we meet men. Some gay man are smart enough to conclude that the date didn’t go very well and that they are unlikely to go on a second one and then there are some who delusionally wait for that phone call.
How is it that when we look at the situation as an outsider, we can immediately conclude that the outcome isn't too promising, but when we are actually on the date, our radar goes wonky and all our common sense is chucked out the window. Here are some signs you should look out for when you're out on a date; it can save you the momentary emotional distress.
Honestly disinterested
When you find that there isn’t much eye contact between the two of you, especially when he has been sneaking cheeky glimpses of the hot waiter, it's obvious that he isn't fully engaged in the conversation.
What’s in a name?
If he keeps calling you different names on and off during the date then it’s definitely a lost cause. Some people make a decision at the beginning of a date, as to whether or not it will go anywhere. If the guy has made his mind up in the beginning that this is the only date there’s going to be, then he sees no reason to remember your name at all.
And this is....?
If you run into people he knows while the two of you are on a date and he doesn’t introduce you (even as “my date”) or acknowledge that you are there then you may as well take the hint that the evening is a onetime thing only. Even if he does remember your name!
Sky high
He gets utterly drunk progressively throughout the evening and starts to behave like a douche bag. If everything had been going swimmingly then he probably would have remained on his best behaviour to impress you. Acting in this way indicates that he isn’t really bothered about what you think of him.
He thinks you're desperate
Some gay man will do or say anything to snag a man. Everything these gay men do and say from that point on can scream out ‘trying too hard’. They will employ their gayness tricks, manipulation, biological clock, guilt and seductive sex traps to snare him. As cunning as these gay men are, their desperation comes forth as something bubbling ready to explode. Many gay men are weary of these men and run the other way when they meet them.
Thank you and goodnight
If at the end of the date there is no mention of plans for another date or “we must do this again sometime” then take note to cut your losses and realise that there isn’t going to be a second date or a phone call.
You’re the one paying
Have you ever had a person ask you out on a date and then ask you to foot the bill? This is one of the signs your date went badly, but it is a terrible one to have happen. If you instigated the date, you could offer to pay, but if you’re invited and there wasn’t anything mentioned about going Dutch, than clearly he doesn’t care much about impressing you.
In a hurry to drop you off
Your date was checking the time all night and seemed to be waiting for the date to end. The date possibly even ended a bit abruptly. As you two are heading home, he’s sort of disinterested and distracted. The good-byes are rushed and you almost lose your arm as he drives away before the door is closed. You can’t quite pinpoint when the odd behaviour began, but there must have been something that occurred to make your date act like this.
Honestly disinterested
When you find that there isn’t much eye contact between the two of you, especially when he has been sneaking cheeky glimpses of the hot waiter, it's obvious that he isn't fully engaged in the conversation.
What’s in a name?
If he keeps calling you different names on and off during the date then it’s definitely a lost cause. Some people make a decision at the beginning of a date, as to whether or not it will go anywhere. If the guy has made his mind up in the beginning that this is the only date there’s going to be, then he sees no reason to remember your name at all.
And this is....?
If you run into people he knows while the two of you are on a date and he doesn’t introduce you (even as “my date”) or acknowledge that you are there then you may as well take the hint that the evening is a onetime thing only. Even if he does remember your name!
Sky high
He gets utterly drunk progressively throughout the evening and starts to behave like a douche bag. If everything had been going swimmingly then he probably would have remained on his best behaviour to impress you. Acting in this way indicates that he isn’t really bothered about what you think of him.
He thinks you're desperate
Some gay man will do or say anything to snag a man. Everything these gay men do and say from that point on can scream out ‘trying too hard’. They will employ their gayness tricks, manipulation, biological clock, guilt and seductive sex traps to snare him. As cunning as these gay men are, their desperation comes forth as something bubbling ready to explode. Many gay men are weary of these men and run the other way when they meet them.
Thank you and goodnight
If at the end of the date there is no mention of plans for another date or “we must do this again sometime” then take note to cut your losses and realise that there isn’t going to be a second date or a phone call.
You’re the one paying
Have you ever had a person ask you out on a date and then ask you to foot the bill? This is one of the signs your date went badly, but it is a terrible one to have happen. If you instigated the date, you could offer to pay, but if you’re invited and there wasn’t anything mentioned about going Dutch, than clearly he doesn’t care much about impressing you.
In a hurry to drop you off
Your date was checking the time all night and seemed to be waiting for the date to end. The date possibly even ended a bit abruptly. As you two are heading home, he’s sort of disinterested and distracted. The good-byes are rushed and you almost lose your arm as he drives away before the door is closed. You can’t quite pinpoint when the odd behaviour began, but there must have been something that occurred to make your date act like this.
However it happened, this is not an ideal date.
Till then..
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