Dream DATES....

Resistance is futile: the men that gay men want to date.

Every gay man has a dream guy that they would like to date or some action-figure-type of a man that that they want swooping them off their feet. It is also no secret to the human race that there are certain men that have been proven to be irresistible to gay men and it isn’t necessarily because they have chiselled jaws, a six pack and beautiful looks either.

There are certain traits that gay men are drawn to but there are also professions that some men have that gay men also find incredibly sexy. If you are currently single then take advantage of the many possibilities and try dating a plethora of men. We are basically implying that you shouldn’t let the opportunity of expanding your perspective and horizon pass you by.

The bad boy
Even though they leave trail of broken hearts in their wake there is something that we find irresistible about the bad boy. Perhaps it is the cocky bad boy swagger that we are enthralled by or the fact that they portray the alpha male to the core; a straight ahead, no-apologies, hyper-masculine guy with no feelings for others that somehow we find enticing despite all common sense or warning and when it ends, the psychological grip and nuclear breakdown that we go through is on an epic scale.

The chef
Who can’t resist a guy that can whip up a storm in the kitchen and is constantly com in up with fabulous taste sensations for us to try? We certainly want an order. Not only is it incredibly sexy if a guy can cook but at least you know that when you aren’t able to cook, you and him and anyone else that may be around won’t be starving to death, ordering junk or blowing up the place with a can of baked beans in the microwave. Another way to look at it is that a chef is a man who is creative, sensual and great with his hand!

The foreigner
Ah, the foreigner. What is it about this exotic creature that we find so enthralling? Maybe it is the unique way that they see the world, so the social customs and everyday behaviour that is a little eccentric that grabs our attention. Whatever it is they always seem to be incredibly charming. They just seem to have a certain je ne sais quoi about them that is alluring.

The mans man
Think James Bond or some other secret agent to get the picture. This is the guy that would defend you to the bitter end and there is something about his raw masculinity, charm and charisma that completely does it for you. He is the sharp dresser, the slick talker with MacGyver moves and resourcefulness. You may not know what he actually does, but you sure don’t mind helping him take his mind off of work!

The artist
This guy is spontaneous and he’ll challenge you to think out-of-the-box and urge you to embrace the change that is life in the now. The way that he ‘woos’ is certainly creative whether it be a painting or a simple song. Every gay man wants to feel unique and special and there is no better way that they do this than use you as a muse or a source of inspiration. We are intrigued by this guy creative mind and especially in the way that he incorporates us into his art.

The pilot
Tom Cruise. Top Gun. We don’t really need to say anymore...but we will anyway! How can the thrill of the open sky ever wear off and the chance to travel the world to exotic locations with him (or to meet the foreign guy)? Pilots ooze sex appeal just because they can fly such a vast structure. The whole Top Gun thing worked for Tom and it sure does work for any other guy especially THE uniform!

The older guy

He’s old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough man’s to know that we require much more than a dinner and a few martinis to get in the mood. They have the ability to keep us on our toes and although the chances of long term compatibility a slim, at least you will walk away worldlier and wiser.

Till then...