Wishing on a star for mr right to appear

Just less then three days left and still counting. According to my source, this month I will fall madly in love with a man who is tall, dark and speaks with a British accent.

Excellent, It's the Rabbit year and I may meet a handsome British atlete. But here I am, still single and it's the end of January. Dear psychic, where is he?

Like many man, I consulted a clairvoyant who revealed many private and uncanny details about my life.

Throughout the reading I was captivated and impressed by her intuition.

Regardless of the paranormal mumbo jumbo. I hoped for the love she predicted. But was I being set up for disappointment?

As modern man, we want answers and we want them now - or at least a sneak peek into our future with an affirmation that it's going to be OK.

Whether it is paying a person who claims supernatural power or skimming over our daily horoscope in the newspaper, most of us are searching for direction.

Take my friend Andy, who had a psychic predict he would quit his job, meet a guy in finance and travel overseas. Eight months later Andy left his job and is now enjoying a honeymoon in Rome with his accountant partner. His psychic seemed to get it right.

When my friend Julia was 32, a psychic told her that the love of her life would work with planes. Since then, every man she's had a major relationship with has been connected with aviation.

I don't know if it was my fate that she predicted or rather the fact I was fluttering my eyes a little more around pilots," Julia says. "Perhaps the psychic's prediction subconsciously altered who I found attractive. Who knows?"

Even the daily horoscope can assist in moulding your life. Predictions such as "Today you will face your fear" can cause you to spend the rest of the day worrying about being eaten by a shark.

Perhaps we like tracking our future unpredictable.

It's a bit like the weather forecast. By promising an insight into what the coming weeks and months have in store, astrology gives us the feeling of control, however spurious that impression may be.

Another reason is flattery. Personallity profiles tend to be pepered with characteristic such as sensitive, emotional, active, pratical, pleasant and so forth - traits most people like.

Some people use horoscopes as a form of flitering out the chance of bad encounters. My friend James is guilty of "horoscope-ism". He's prejudiced againts all men who are Geminis.

Why? Not only is his astrological chart a bad match with a Gemini, he has had a bad experience with one.

"Rulling out men with vaguely similar personalities as a way of proctecting myself. I was hurt by a similar type and I don't want to risk the chance again. So that means 'no' to all Gemini" James says.

Despite the appeal of such astrological insight, one misses out on the fun of letting nature take its course. Eliminating certain people based on the alignment of stars is as ridiculous as rulling out a person based on their hair colour.

I have three days left before my psychic is officially wrong. But the lack of a tall, dark British man in my life is not devastating. If he doesn't turn up this month, it isn't my fault. Maybe that's the secret to horoscopes and an attraction for the supernatural - if it's out of your hands, no one is to blame but the planets and the stars. But then who can blame us for having a little fun?

HAPPY RABBIT YEAR..............

Till then

Should I reply for this ad.....?

Why describe when you can know me personally...

However, as hor's douvres, I can be in two extremes at the same time...nice and cruel...calm and frustrated...intelligent and silly...


Myself:
Warm hearted, friendly, easy going and witty person who enjoys talking about everything and anything under the sun, moon and stars...

Some people MAY perceive me as being intrusive, rude and prude for asking too many "personal" questions...but isn't that the only way to understand each other?

I am open to casual sex occasionally when my testosterone overflows...[quite often i admit] and I do believe that sometimes, the "casual sex"ness can develop into something more...

And of course, in any relationship, doing life and making love together requires no super scientifically proven methodology and experimentation...honesty, respect, integrity and compatibility are the main core ingredients in anticipating something simply beautiful


6 Jan 2009
loving somebody may not be the most pleasant feeling because it also means able to let-go when circumstances calls for:

hating somebody may not be the most unpleasant feeling because it also means able to learn life forgiving virtue

loving and hating the same person...would that be the best solution to eternal companionship?

mydesire
There's no such thing as a perfect/ ideal person as I believe in individual differences...

All you need is the skill in juggling between:

"birds of the same feather, flocks together"

and

"opposite attracts"

Paradoxically and contradictingly logical, yet common sensical:)

Either ways, let Cupid play his rightful role and just embrace the 'changes' along the way...

p/s

Let me THINK of it and maybe 'if' I really need a casual sex (like what he mention) I'll give this guy a call....

Till then.......

HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND

For a reason, for a season or for a lifetime....

Dear G....

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.They may seem like a godsend, and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.Then, without any wrong doing on your part or an inconvenienttime, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it!

It is real!

But...only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

.

Thank you for being a part of my life.

May your God hold you in the palm of his hand and Angels watch over you.

Smile and be happy, be true, be you

Till then...

Frm G

Letter to Mr. A

Dear Mr. A,

How great to hear from you

I am sitting on my computer - its sunday morning (well - to be honest - almost mid-day). I had a very early night last night. I was in bed by ten o'clock.

It was supposed to be nice and hot today - but unfortunately the weather, GOD did not listen to the forecast and did something different.

well - anway - I will try to organise a nice and civil sunday. bought a lot of books in the city last week and will catch up with some reading.

I might go into town and sit outside somewhere with a glass of wine and a book. I quite enjoy the buzz in the city on days like this. my friends will be arrive from Auckland later this evening, and I need to pick him up from the train station later - so there is no point of leaving town and driving out into the countryside.

Anyway - there are so many things I would like to show you around here. I am sure you would like it.

I wish I could send you some rays of sun to freezing London to warm you up. but instead I can only send you my thoughts and my love hoping that this warms you up too....

take care of yourself baby - my heart is with you

Till then, hope to hear from you soon

G

More sex makes men healthier...!

Most men would agree that sex is a good thing (except when it's not, but that's another article). We like it. We crave it. We think about it quite a lot of the time.

So we really don't need another reason to have sex. The very squelchy, touchy, lovely-ness of it is enough for us. We need no more encouragement.

That's not always the case with the people we want to have sex with though. Sometimes, we want sex and they don't. Sometimes we really want sex and they want to watch Grey's Anatomy.

Sometimes, having a spare 10 minutes and nothing better to do is just not a good enough reason for our so-called "better" halves to head straight for the boudoir shedding clothes as they go.

If you find yourself in that situation, don't beg or plead, because it's undignified. Just tell them this: "If you want me to live for a long time (and let's assume for our purposes here that you do), you have to have sex with me a lot. It's a scientific fact."

And really, it is. Because not only is sex good fun, it's also really good for us. And the health benefits of a bunk up are, if anything, even more marked for men.

So next time your boyfriend brushes aside your amorous advances, remind him that it may be a matter of life and death. Here's all the information you need.

Sex for life - Don't think for a second we're suggesting you lie to your boyfriend or partner about the benefits of sex, because quite frankly you don't need to. The evidence is pretty clear.

Take, for example, a study by researchers at Queen's University in Belfast, one of the most rigorous studies ever carried out on health and sex in men. The study tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade.

The results were unequivocal. The men who enjoyed the highest frequency of orgasms had half the death rate of those for whom episodes of sexual ecstasy were few and far between.

These may have been middle-aged men, but sexual patterns are often set in earlier decades. The more sex you have now — assuming you practise safe sex — the better off you'll be in a few years' time.

We heart sex - Then the researchers decided to do a follow-on from the original study and concentrate on cardiovascular health alone.

Again, the results were clear. Healthy men who have sex three or more times a week can reduce their risk of heart attack or stroke by half.

So if he's unimpressed when you ask him for a quickie before watching the DVD, explain that it's all part of your very keen desire to grow old with him. They love that sort of stuff.

Heavenly bodies - Maybe you've put on a few pounds. Maybe you're not the sprightly young thing he was first attracted to. Maybe you've let yourself go. Well, if that's his excuse, tell him the best way to get you back the way he wants you is, by happy coincidence, to have more sex.

OK, having sex is not going to burn off as many calories as going for a run, but that hasn't stopped Men's Health magazine calling the bed the greatest piece of exercise equipment ever invented.

And that's because sex does burn calories — a vigorous session can knock off 200 of the blighters — and unlike running it's not something you'll put off every time you feel a tiny twinge in your big toe.

In other words, you don't need to motivate yourself to cuddle up in a nice warm bed in the same way you do to pound the rain-lashed streets. And there's more. Sex works muscles in your buttocks, pelvis, thighs and arms, and raises your pulse rate to the level of an elite athlete training his socks off.

So you can imitate Usain Bolt, at least in the bedroom.

Get prostrate for your prostate - You might not worry about your prostate now — heck, you might not even know you've got one — but you might in a few years' time. Prostate cancer is the most common cancer in men.

With that in mind, some urologists believe that one of the best ways to ward off prostate cancer is to 'flush out' the prostate at regular intervals. And would you believe it, the best way to flush it out is by frequent ejaculation.

The sooner you start, the better. A study published in the British Journal of Urology International said that men in their 20s can reduce by a third their chance of getting pro state cancer by ejaculating more than five times a week.

And there's more...

If he's still not convinced that you absolutely must have regular sex for the sake of your health, a better tack might be to tell him that you absolutely must have regular sex for the sake of his.

You can mention that sex improves pain relief for both of you, boosts both your immune systems, improves his bladder control and can reduce his chances of depression.

So there you have it. You can tempt him into bed with your raw sexuality, or romantic gestures, or by plying him with alcohol.

And if all else fails you can tell him that if you don't have sex right this very second (in a variety of positions and possibly involving handcuffs) you might not make it through the night.

How could he possibly refuse?

Till then

Learn the art of seduction

Want to get that special someone hot under the collar? Try one of these easy ways to make your move—a sexy glance, a sweet whisper, and more

Ever wish you were one of those lucky people who oozes sensuality and knows how to make just the right romantic move at the perfect time?

Well, you can be. The art of seduction is well within anyone’s reach. All you need to learn are a few simple techniques that will exert such a powerful force, you won’t know how you ever dated without them. Read on for the scoop, then get ready to be a smooth operator when wooing your special someone.


Reach out and touch someone - When you feel ready and raring to get closer to your date, touch is often the ticket. Not only does it forge an instant physical connection, the warmth of your hand on the small of your date’s back, shoulder, or knee will get his mind racing. Matt has often used this technique with great results. “When I’m talking to a boy(s) and I find myself wanting to take things further, I start playing with his hair,” he says. “We’ll be sitting on the couch, and I’ll be next to him stroking his hair. When it feels right, I’ll rest my hand on the back of his head and gently pull him in for a kiss. Because I’m already playing with his hair, it feels like a natural next step, not like I’m suddenly putting the moves on him.”

Turn down the volume on your conversation - You can also use conversation to cast a spell on the object of your affections. In this case, it’s often not what you say, but how you say it. People who talk loudly and jovially can be the life of the party, but speaking softly actually packs much more punch in the turn-on department. Your date will probably lean in a little closer to catch what you’re saying—and that’s always a plus. He may also get the feeling that you don’t want anyone else to hear what you’re saying, adding a nice umbrella of privacy and intimacy to your conversation. Even better, try whispering in your amour’s ear—a move that always gets things going for Guillermo. “It lets him know what it will be like to be close to me and lets him feel my warm breath on his ear,” he explains. Both of which can really get your date’s senses tingling. And you don’t even have to try to say something smooth and sexy—that, in fact, can be overkill. Have fun with it, advises Guillermo. Try something a little goofy like, “I have a secret I want to share: Sometimes I watch Gilmore Girls. But that’s between you and me; promise?”

Take it slow and sensual - Seems obvious, but it’s easy to forget: Getting your date hot and bothered largely boils down to tapping into your natural sensuality. Says James: “For me, being seductive is about making everything I do a bit sexual—though not in an overt, double-entendre way,” he says. “I kind of remind myself to slow down and be sexy when I walk, or to take a bite of food and look at him at the same time.” To help this along, steer date night conversation away from topics like bird flu and focus on more sensual topics, like your trip to Fiji or how amazing your tiramisu tastes. Enhance the sexy mood by looking at your date’s lips or into his eyes… and think about what it would be like to be kissing. Trust me, your date will notice a difference, and things will shift to a more intimate level.


Smooth-talk your way into a kiss - Leaning in for that first kiss is largely a leap of faith—you never truly know if your date’s glad you did until you pucker up and go for it. But believe it or not, smooth operators have come up with some strategies to ease into it. “When I want to seduce someone, I’m kind of playful about it,” I told my friend Jeff. “At a point during the night when I want to kiss him, I’ll whisper, ‘What would you say if I kissed you right now?’ It tells him that I want to kiss him, builds some sexual tension—and if he doesn’t want to kiss me, he can say so before I go for it.”

Go for the give-and-take - Seductive types send “I want you” signals early and often — a tap on the knee or arm to emphasize a point or a compliment like “You look amazing in that shirt” — and they wait for the object of their affections to respond before inching ahead.

As Mike puts it: “Seduction is a give and take. I don’t think it’s necessarily up to the guy to make all the moves. Seduction should be a slow, sexy exchange.” With the last boy he dated, that was definitely the case. “Our dates didn’t consist of me putting the moves on him, but rather a back and forth flirtation,” he recalls.

“For example, over dinner, I would tell him how beautiful he was, then he would touch my arm, and then I would pour his wine. When we finally hooked up, it was amazing because the buildup was so drawn out. Plus, since we both participated in the seduction, we knew our feelings were mutual.

Till then.............

man and man

The man I am going to be with will be the right man.......

and I will just know....

Did I need to reply this?

After a week or so, finally I got few minutes to check into my inbox profile: Surprised to get so many 'hellos' from young guy (even-thought I put at my profile "age preferred 35 - 45 yrs old".... ) Damn, they really can't read don't they!

Anyway, this one bellow attract me read more:

'Hello My dear, I am well pleased to contact you after going through your profile today on my search for relationship. To me age, distance, race and color do not matter, rather what i value most is the understanding and love that will exist between us. So in a specially manner i will like to further communication with you so as for us to know each other well, if you share the same view with me you can reach me through my personal email address, try to tell me more about you, in reply i will tell you more about my self with my picture. Here is my email( joy_4u4@y a h o o. c o m). I am looking forward to read from you. Yours new friend, ( joy) PLS DON'T FORGET TO E-MAIL ME HERE ON(mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm) FOR MORE EXPLAINATION...'

Gosh bless him.....

I have no idea how to respond for this kind of mail............

So, I leave it as is it...........

till then

Did I really needs a man now?

Wishing all of you had the same one as I am... maybe the better one.....

I am here not to complaint, but to share what beautiful week that I had to start my new journey of 2011... (especially after lost alot of money when am get attack in Bangkok)

31st Dec:

- Having seal the agreement and the contract was confirmed. Thanks God for this. So I had something to work on it and something to look forward every morning when am wake up....

- Great New Year party to start and to celebrate at Paul + Elisa's place - damn, they

were never stop pouring to my glass.... and my glass were never empty...

1st Jan:

- Date with gorgeous stranger that I met two night before, it was amazing that someone as gorgeous as him want to 'date' this old man.

The lunch date continue to my afternoon drinks at my place with some of my friends 'new year sore' at my balcony.

The stranger enjoying the company of my friends

I guess, by the time all called it a day, my 'date' was too drunk at my bed....

2nd Jan:

Waken up in the arms of gorgeous stranger, nice cuddle and breakfast under the beautiful sunny day in my balcony...

I was over the moon, it was the greatest day in a long time, meeting him and having him around was like 'God gift'..... It was very hard for me to let him out from my place, kissing him and cuddling him make me wanting more. I wish I could have him forever...... - Zach -

By 11am the stranger have to leave..... it sad but we have to move on, as he live in Hong Kong and am in KL. Long distance relationship doesn't work to me....

2pm - Finally agreed to have a late lunch with the guy that I've had been chatting for a month... Nice guy, but he were far to skinny then what he told me..... I am affraid that I'll break his bone when I cuddle him..

Politely, I've to asked him to excuss me, the long night is the excuss to get away from him. - thanks God -

7pm - Dinner with the guy that I've had met last month, great dinner and the wine go straight into my head, the lack of sleep, the tiredness from the night before made me want to go home early...

I got an early start the next day with my new project, but this 'date' walked me up to my home.... the rest is history.......

Wake up in the arms of nice warm body and strong cuddle.....

Breakfast in my balcony before I kick him out cos I need to get ready for my 1st meeting of the year...............

3rd Jan:

Great meeting and great day at work - sound promising and felt that I've had make the right choice for my project.

6pm - Happy hour with my business associate

8pm - 'He' is at my lobby waiting for me.....

Gosh, I must be too drunk (last night) to remember that I had a date coming tonight!

Bottle of wine and great cuddle that what in need ..................

4th Jan:

7pm - He coming to pick me up for dinner at WIP, great choice of New Zealand wine, great company and nice to shared with someone beautiful and caring.....

Wake up in the warm and strong arms.....

5th Jan:

6pm - Happy Hour with old friends, sharing about businesss great talk and more oppurtunity coming.

9pm - the stranger was at the lobby with his 'overnight' bag.... I was ecstatic, felt it's like having my old life back! seeing him and looking at his sweet face made me realised, this is the life that I've had been missing for long.

6th Jan-

7pm - he pick me up from work, having drinks at the bar and chat, but I felt that is enough for now.... I get tired with his caring and questions..............

10pm - got home and made love all night - feeling rather empty and something missing in this strong body......

7th Jan:

6am - wake up and feeling empty and confused....! Is this the real life that I've had been missing? and is this the life that I really want?

QUESTION.............. QUESTION..................

Nope, I've had a good deal that I need to complate and to reach, to make a good and real money before June and my KPI ......

Do I really need a man at this time?

12noon - Call him and told him that I need my space today - excuss, am tired from the lack of sleep, and still not get used with the sudden change..... - Ken Hudson

The sound od un-happy man.....

What should I do???????????

and another Question and more Question....

New beginning - tough

Hello 2011.........

It only the second day of 2011, and I am having tough time to choose the path of my future...

I am in the middle of the road toward the junction..... and I have to make a choice which side is the best one for me, cos am not too sure about both side....

This the delima tha come cross to me at the second day of new year..... I have to be careful in chosing the right path of my journey, it's going to be a hard and taugh for me if i did choose the wrong one....

Finger cross and pray hard - Tomorrow I'll be able to choose the road...........

Hope with the guide from my angels I'll be there toward the end.......

God give me sign please..............

Bless

Amen