If you planning to moving in with your man, let have a look for those below:-
1- Don’t forget that your relationship needs quality time and nurturing which can often be neglected when you live together because you see each other the whole time. You need to remember to bond and continue nurturing your relationship like you did before you moved in together. And bonding doesn’t involve sitting in front of the television eating dinner.
2- Moving in together can be the natural progression for some in a relationship in steps in taking things further. There are of course positives and negatives to cohabitation. While you may be excited about the prospect of living together, remember that things aren’t always easy and hurdles or petty annoyances always pop up. However, there are things that you can both do that will make the change an easy one. If you’re planning on taking the plunge and moving in together, here are some things to think about and tips to help make that transition smooth.
3- Be aware that conflicting ideas of how things should be done will arise and people always think their way is the best way. It could be even the most mundane such as how often the laundry should be done, or leaving the loo seat up. Things will slowly emerge and you both need to agree on how to deal with them.
4- Make sure that you continue to communicate with each other, as it is always key in any relationship. Of course you will talk, but make sure you talk about any concerns, worries, feelings or things that are bothering or annoy you both. Moving in together will change the nature of your relationship, either for the better or for the worse, but the more you communicate, the less they will turn into issues and problems.
5- That said it is also important to have your own time away from each other as things can sometimes become suffocating. Everyone needs alone time and personal space every now and again as you don’t need to be around each other every spare moment. It is also important not to neglect friendships
6- Try to avoid setting rules on things you do and don’t like or how things should be done as this will invariably lead to arguments and more often than not it comes across as hostile and a little threatening. Surely if you are planning to live together you know each other well enough and trust that they live in a way similar to you
7- Make sure that you share the housework because if only one of you does it resentment will grow and you’ll soon be sick of picking up and tidying after someone else. Don’t let someone else’s bad housekeeping abilities affect your expectations. That is of course unless you have a maid on a daily basis.
8- Try to avoid your relationship getting caught in a rut. It is an easy thing to do as a cycle of going to work, coming back, eating and watching TV develops. Make sure you go out, whether it is to see a film, catch up with mutual friends or for a meal.
9- If you are in any doubt or there are certain things that you aren’t happy about in your relationship, then moving in together won’t help. Moving in together won’t solve any problems the relationship has, so you may want to hang onto the room in your parents’ home and work the problems out before you make such a big decision.
Till then, good luck with your moving in into your new partner place...
Have a lovely weekend
1- Don’t forget that your relationship needs quality time and nurturing which can often be neglected when you live together because you see each other the whole time. You need to remember to bond and continue nurturing your relationship like you did before you moved in together. And bonding doesn’t involve sitting in front of the television eating dinner.
2- Moving in together can be the natural progression for some in a relationship in steps in taking things further. There are of course positives and negatives to cohabitation. While you may be excited about the prospect of living together, remember that things aren’t always easy and hurdles or petty annoyances always pop up. However, there are things that you can both do that will make the change an easy one. If you’re planning on taking the plunge and moving in together, here are some things to think about and tips to help make that transition smooth.
3- Be aware that conflicting ideas of how things should be done will arise and people always think their way is the best way. It could be even the most mundane such as how often the laundry should be done, or leaving the loo seat up. Things will slowly emerge and you both need to agree on how to deal with them.
4- Make sure that you continue to communicate with each other, as it is always key in any relationship. Of course you will talk, but make sure you talk about any concerns, worries, feelings or things that are bothering or annoy you both. Moving in together will change the nature of your relationship, either for the better or for the worse, but the more you communicate, the less they will turn into issues and problems.
5- That said it is also important to have your own time away from each other as things can sometimes become suffocating. Everyone needs alone time and personal space every now and again as you don’t need to be around each other every spare moment. It is also important not to neglect friendships
6- Try to avoid setting rules on things you do and don’t like or how things should be done as this will invariably lead to arguments and more often than not it comes across as hostile and a little threatening. Surely if you are planning to live together you know each other well enough and trust that they live in a way similar to you
7- Make sure that you share the housework because if only one of you does it resentment will grow and you’ll soon be sick of picking up and tidying after someone else. Don’t let someone else’s bad housekeeping abilities affect your expectations. That is of course unless you have a maid on a daily basis.
8- Try to avoid your relationship getting caught in a rut. It is an easy thing to do as a cycle of going to work, coming back, eating and watching TV develops. Make sure you go out, whether it is to see a film, catch up with mutual friends or for a meal.
9- If you are in any doubt or there are certain things that you aren’t happy about in your relationship, then moving in together won’t help. Moving in together won’t solve any problems the relationship has, so you may want to hang onto the room in your parents’ home and work the problems out before you make such a big decision.
Till then, good luck with your moving in into your new partner place...
Have a lovely weekend
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